Episode 152: Tomorrow isn't promisedAug 05, 2021
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You know I am always pretty open about what I am going through in life and this episode will be no different. It was time to record a new episode and my family suffered a big loss. Someone who had a pivotal role in my childhood, taught me a lot about life and always loved me was lost too soon. It would be inauthentic to speak on anything else as this weighs so heavy on my heart and mind.
This loss really got me thinking. What are we waiting for? Tomorrow is never promised so why are we so quick to
- Start a project tomorrow
- Make that call tomorrow
- Talk about our goals tomorrow
Tomorrow doesn’t actually exist because by the time it is here it will be today and that could be too late. It is so easy to be full of excuses,
- I was busy
- I don’t have the money
- I don’t have the time
- I’m scared
But F the excuses. What do you really want in life? Last night as I lay in bed I was reading a book titled, ‘The Go Giver: Leadership.’ There was a quote that really resonated with me.
‘I think we live to find out who we are.”
So much of our lives is repeating conditioning and programming that we learned in broken school systems from teachers who have their own trauma and stories. We pick all of this up, put it in an oversized backpack and carry that shit around. Not our shit….everyone else’s. And that shit is what is holding us back, fueling those excuses, making us think we are not good enough, not worthy. That shit is what makes us afraid to fail!
The average toddler has heard the word no 400 times a day…… a day people!!! Think about school, when you answered a question and were wrong, were you celebrated for being courageous enough to try and answer the question or where you were scolded for being wrong. My guess is the latter. Then we wonder why we are afraid to put ourselves out there! Afraid to go after our dreams,
- Call the person you haven’t spoken to in a long time
- Call the potential client
- Book the trip
- Talk about your dreams
We are afraid because we have been taught that failure is bad! But failure is freaking amazing!!!! If we don’t fail, we don’t learn, which means we don’t grow! We NEED to fail. Did you hear me clearly? Failure is necessary. It is through this journey and through these failures and putting ourselves out there that we learn who we actually are underneath it all.
So I ask you…..what are you waiting for? I asked myself this question today about some goals I have had for a really long time….am I ready to let go of my excuses and make this a reality?
A good friend of mine Jessica Thiefels, recently shared a podcast episode on her show, ‘Mindset Reset radio,’ where she interviewed Shay Stone. Shay said something that really hit me!
‘Faith and fear are the exact same thing. They both demand you believe in something you can’t see.’
So why are so many of us clinging onto fear for dear life afraid to embrace faith?
Tomorrow isn’t promised. Loss is a very painful reminder that our days are numbered here in this physical body. Let’s stop wasting them.
- Tell that person you love them
- Make that phone call
- Dream Big
It is time to unpack all of the stories we have learned from other people and our environment and follow our hearts. Before I sign off for today I want to share with you two things that have really been helping me with this journey.
The first is the Emotion Code. You can check out the book or find an emotion code practitioner, just IG message me and I will introduce you to mine! So what the hell is it? Our emotions when left unprocessed get stuck in our bodies. Not only that, but the emotions of our ancestors get stuck in our bodies if they are left unprocessed. Emotion Code is a tool to release those emotions and heal them. I have been doing 2-3 emotion code sessions a month and the healing has been profound!
Second is my oils. My emotion code practitioner actually couples the work with essential oils giving it another layer of healing. I wanted to share a few of the oils I have been using a lot to help me.
- Siberian Fir: release generational trauma
- Forgive: forgiving myself and others
- Rose: Loving and embracing my authentic self
As always if you want to connect head over to IG and send me a message, I love to hear from you. If you are ready to give essential oils a try I have my risk free 5 day oil experience for you. $10, 6 samples, 5 days of guided text messages. If you don’t like it, I will send you your money back! Click the link below or in my IG profile to get snag your oil experience now!
Do you have questions or would you like to learn more about how you can incorporate essential oils into your life? Let's hop on a call! Use the link below to schedule a call.
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